Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Manila, Philippines

After arriving back in Singapore from our trip to Chicago, it was off to Manila for three days in August.
I wasn't sure what to expect of Manila as all I ever really heard about was how poor it was and that it is generally an unsafe city.
What I found was that the Philippines is EXTREMELY Americanized! I had never known this before but after my time there I would absolutely say it is a country that most closely emulates American culture from food to clothing to television.  Much of this I learned, comes from the historical American occupation of the Philippines after the Philippine-American War.
My stay in Manila was very busy with work, but I did get to sample some local Filipino food which was delicious.  Their style appears to be quite simple in style but flavorful and aromatic.  For example, lunch came served wrapped in a large banana leaf containing a portion of steamed rice, a chicken breast gently seasoned and then some sweetly fried bananas which they topped the chicken or rice with.  I was told that it is quite common for them to mix a fruit with each meal to add flavor to the dish.  I enjoyed its simplicity.
The hotel I stayed at was likely what I will most remember about Manila.  It was beautiful and full of every amenity you could imagine, the Peninsula Manila.
While the hotel was absolutely lovely, I will most remember the hotel for it's History.  You will notice in the picture that the hotel has two towers which you can see to the back left and right of the photo.  The massive structure in the middle is actually the lobby which you are driven up to from the back after going through Security.  The lobby area is relatively new and came to be after a Political situation. In 2007 right around Christmas, a political coup was staged in the former lobby of this hotel.  It ended with tanks being driven into the lobby of the hotel to end the coup.  I find it interesting that not a single shot was fired.  It appears that the initial attempt to end the coup was to drive tanks in.  An interesting way to begin resolving an issue! 
And from that rubble the new lobby came to be.
Here is a link from the BBC reporting on the event at the time:

Manila itself seemed to be an example of extremes, you either had money or had none, buildings were either new and modern or very old.  I stayed in the "city" within Manila called Makati. It is their prime business section of Manila and relatively safe and clean.  Within a few blocks of my hotel were all the major upscale Asian hotels that you would expect to see (Shangri-La, etc) and some very nice shopping malls.
Traffic is insanely bad there and they commonly employ persons to drive for them.  It is inexpensive to have this service in the Philippines and allows them to get to and from their destination without worrying about parking or the safety of their car.  It is hard for me to imagine being driven to work each day and knowing that the person who drove you is sitting outside my office all day waiting for me.  They often are very loyal, the driver I used was the personal driver for our medical director for the past 15 years! 

A Very Delayed Attempt at Getting Caught Up!

Unfortunately, I let time get away from me and have not been updating the blog.  Its comical to me now to look back and see that the last post I posted was all about how my new MacBook would improve my blogging abilities.  Apparently, it destroyed my ability as its been 6 months since I posted!

On with the more important thing though which is to document our time in Singapore to preserve it not only for our memories but for our daughters.

I can't move forward without going back, so here it is....the blog version of our trip home to Chicago in July.

We were all so excited to come home for July!  I know Dannette and I are similar and we spend months prior to any event we are really excited about and fantasize the whole thing in our heads.  Usually this can be a recipe for disaster as real life is always hard to live up to our fantasies.

In this case, the real event was a mixed bag. I think Dannette would say she had the best month ever being home with her friends.  And I would have to agree that from her perspective it was probably everything she dreamed of and more.  All starting with a giant group of girls waiting at the foot of our driveway to shout and cheer with homemade Welcome signs as we pulled down the street.  I knew in that moment exactly how much she and her friends mean to one another!  It was a spectacle I won't soon forget. And that is where we leave Dannette for this post as that was pretty much the last we saw of her all month :)

Now for the remainder of us, the month proved to be less that optimal.  At the same time though, I don't know that anyone else could have pulled together a month of this many misshaps:
  • taking the wrong bag at the airport for one of our bags and not discovering it until we arrived at the rental car place in Libertyville.  John then drove back, jet lagged and all, to retrieve it
  • I developed a searing back pain on the flight home (only 2 hours into the 18 hours of flights), only to discover 5 days later that the back pain and fever was pneumonia.  I wound up hospitalized and spent the vast majority of the month recovering
  • on the day I was released from the hospital, there was a minor accident with our rental car involving John and a parking lot pole
  • later in the month during an early morning trip out for breakfast I made the mistake of letting Halie play with the car keys while buckling her into the car seat.  Not realizing that she might have hit the door lock key, I accidentally shut the door with the keys on the back floor mats (with Halie inside).  Not having a spare key for that rental car, we had to phone the friendly Lake Bluff police who luckily were there in under 5 minutes and had the door popped in less than 2 minutes
All in all, it was great to see as many of our family and friends that we could but completely overwhelming.  John and I both felt the strain of fitting in as much time with family and friends as possible and found ourselves exhausted and not getting a chance to relax. We were sad to leave everyone, but grateful for the respite that Singapore has become for us.